At what level should I be?

Hello All,
I have a wedding directory http://www.tahoeweddings.com which I have submitted to Top: Society: Relationships: Weddings: Directories and Guides: United States. I feel this is the best spot because
1. Lake Tahoe spans two states, California and Nevada. Both are in many ways VERY different in how weddings are performed.
2. Lake Tahoe has been claimed by numerous magazines to be the #2 destination wedding location in the United States.

However, I can see how it would belong here too.
Society: Relationships: Weddings: Directories and Guides: United States
I'm not fully aware of when a site such as this should be in shopping or not.

Or finally, should it be here
Top: Society: Relationships: Weddings: Directories and Guides: United States: Nevada
and here
Top: Society: Relationships: Weddings: Directories and Guides: United States: California
or in the corresponding shopping categories.

The site is currently here
Top: Regional: North America: United States: California: Regions: Lake Tahoe: Business and Economy: Event Planning: Weddings
TIA for your help.
Powdork

Well, if it's based around Lake Tahoe, surely the Lake Tahoe category would be the best?

You can try your luck with http://dmoz.org/Society/Relationships/Weddings/Directories_and_Guides/United_States - sometimes we list sites in both Regional and once elsewhere.

Thanks totalxsive. Is there any difference in the society and shopping categories as far as submission? I noticed they are all the same sites? I ask because I had already submitted to the shopping category. I would think that submitting to the the society category could be viewed as abusive if the submissions are going to the same queue.

<edit>In my original post I said I had already submitted to the society cat. That is incorrect. I had already submitted to the shopping cat. </edit>

Your submission is waiting in http://dmoz.org/Society/Relationships/Weddings/Directories_and_Guides/United_States/ . The 'Directories_and_Guides@' in Shopping/Wedding is not a real category, it's a link to the one in Society. That's why the sites are all the same, it's the same category, you just get there from different points. <img src="/images/icons/smirk.gif" alt="" />