>But given we are so prominent in our industry, ...
Assuming for the moment that's really true, what does it signify?
Did you imagine that any editor had an authoritative list of people owning websites in order of their industry prominence? And for some reason a editor listed persons #1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, ... but skipped #2 for personal reasons?
In case it needs to be said, there's no such list, and if there were such a list, there's no such process. You can look at almost any industry category, and you'll find the fingerprints of at least half a dozen different editors, most if not all of which are not personally employed in the relevant industry. Now, look at your own past life. Have you really been so ostentatiously vicious that in any random selection of half-a-dozen volunteers on planet earth, you can feel confident you've probably offended _all_ of them so much that they wouldn't review your website? Very few people in any industry could be so sure of that.
I don't know what business you're in, but there are a number of businesses where there are several large aggregator companies with aggressive stealth-affiliate programs, and lots of small mom-and-pop businesses. In such a case, you can pretty well expect that a MAPB site can easily show bona fides and uniqueness (because no other site can authoritatively describe what MY mom and pop will do for money!) And you can pretty well expect that a well-known large aggregator company can show bona fides (because it's a household name).
But ... a website claiming to be a large aggregator, that isn't a household name, is 99.9999% likely to be a affiliate spam.[*] So you can pretty well expect that when an editor looks at such a site, he'll look very very carefully for subtle evidence of affiliation or plagiarism, and even when he doesn't find it, he'll probably assume the evidence is there and he missed it (which assumption will usually be correct!) So out of caution, he'll not list the site (leaving it for someone else to find the evidence that's probably there) and go edit in some other category, where it's easier to find websites that are demonstrably unique.
[*] You can check this. Google for "Las Vegas Hotels". Divide the number of hits by the number of actual hotels in Las Vegas. Or "Los Angeles Flowers", and divide by the number of florists in the Greater L. A. phone book. You can probably think of other examples.