can someone please give me some advice

Id really like my website in odp directory im pretty sure I've listed it in correct catagory and used correct content can anyone tell me how long it takes to get reviewed and how I can tell if iv been reviewed, failling that if anyone has time please could you advise me on correct catagory and wording please

I would advise you to spend a bit of quality time in our FAQ, which addresses all of the questions you asked.

But in brief:

There is no timeline.
if you've slightly missed the category, not to worrk, editors almost always will make the small moves (and often the larger ones as well).

Bottom line is that once you have made your suggestion, move on to other concerns.