Let me try again - something got lost here.
1. Right now I, [and judging from other posts, other people] don't know whether my last submission is even in DMOZ. Considering the number of lost posts and computer busy problems - I have good reason to think the submission may have been lost. If DMOZ did get it, then it could send me an email - this is an automatic operation, I'm not asking for an editor to do anything. The email makes me feel calm and good. It possibly eliminates multiple submissions, and a lot of the questions posted in this forum.
2. Anyone can submit my site, in an effort to try and spam DMOZ and get my site thrown out. If DMOZ sends an email, then I get notified that this is happening. Sure I understand that a phony submission may have a phony e-mail, etc. I've seen posts where people have claimed they weren't spam submitting, that a competitor was doing it.
In fact if you really want to be safe, have a double verification. After the add URL is accpted, send the email out, and requre a confirmation reply before the Add Url will complete.