Personally, I would take it back to the store and exchange it for the appropriate gift, which is pretty much what I've been trying to do.
IF refusals to place the the link in the proper category are based on a history of which I have no personal knowledge, however, it seems the only recourse is to keep filling out - or have someone keep filling out - that modify form and wait for the request to be refused again. I can only assume that is the reasoning: history. But, you know what they say about assuming.
Knowing the guidelines, if I were an editor, I might think, "Well, it's been added or requested to be modified or otherwise misplaced before, ergo I should probably just refuse it again, because this request is likely to be no different." Hate to say it, but if I were an unpaid, unappreciated volunteer and had a thousand other sites waiting on me knowing that *someone* had violated the listing guidelines previously, I
might be tempted to do just that.
Then again... I might say to myself, "Well, 'someone' in the several-year history of this listing doesn't necessarily make it this particular person who violated the guidelines, so perhaps I will give it the benefit of the doubt and consider that the site may indeed be that of E-Commerce Technology Vendors engaged in developing and servicing online catalog and eprocurement solutions for small businesses rather than web site "content management".
Now... a lot of flotsam has been thrown at ODP editors on this board out of frustration. I see there are even a few here today, but I'm not about to do it myself - frustrated as I am. The ODP has become huge, complicated and important to search engines and end users alike. Its editors' answers to these rants are exactly the same as mine would be: There's a lot on our plates, so kindly remember we're human.
That said, as anyone here who manages the design, hosting, development and/or SEO of multiple sites can attest, it usually takes a team to cover it all. Teams don't always communicate or perform the way they should. Why? They're human, too. Signals are crossed, miscommunication occurs, someone falls down on the job because they've a bad day - whatever. Mistakes happen. The thing to do about that - especially if you're the "I" utimately responsible for it all - is to find those mistakes and see to it they're corrected.
The task will be very difficult if a renewed request doesn't have a snowball's chance out of the gate. But, guess what? It's important to my business to have this site listed properly in DMOZ. So, what do we have to work with here?
Thank you, bobrat, for taking the time to remark on not only the most recent request, but the entire request history. Above and beyond. M'kay. I'll put in another request... and another... and another... PERSONALLY until it's right. Can't say I'm too optimistic at this point, but if no one has any advice to offer on formatting *this* request so that it's not refused out of hand, it's off with me and the crew to attend to the million and one other things on
our plates - oh, and this "gift" from DMOZ. Wrong size. Where's the returns counter?