We're not really supposed to comment on individual websites, but I'm a bit bored at the moment, so I'll give some general pointers...
In general we'll list sites by topic. From what you've said (and I haven't looked at the site) it looks like you've got two topics in your site. One is the religious help side, one is the coping with abuse side.
I'd have a look for categories dealing with both (use the
ODP search on some suitable keywords, and/or click around a bit) and see what you come up with. You might be lucky and find a 'religious help for those suffering abuse' category. If not, you may need to decide which topic is most important.
On the other hand, if your site is primarily there to sell stuff online, somewhere under
http://dmoz.org/Shopping/ (read the category description and FAQ there for details).