Clearly 'birdie' you have not done any full background research into this issue.
however in brief:
Site was listed in dmoz, site had not changed upon being accepted to removal. (yes, i agree that you can change your terms without notice)
This site was then removed i think in 04 and i asked why but did not get a definitave answer, however i was told that there was not enough content on the site, fair enough i accept that one, i pointed out a site that there was listed in what was my category did not have anything substantial on it so why was it there, and its still there? Could my site have been removed by an editor with similar interests? (Its a fair argument)
I was also told that i was spamming the categories of the ODP attemting to have more than one listing. I aksed ODP to prove this yet no evidence has come forward, i have read many articles that back then and even now it could have been a competitor doing it to get me removed, given the sites growth at that time, thats my best hunch, because it did not do it? (Again Fair Argument)
To pre empty any extra reasons that you come up with that i can think off is that i have other relates sites (sister sites) to which you have mentioned, there is nothing wrong with this practice as there are plenty of others out there that do the same and are listed in your directory, you just havent found them, i have. What made it worse it that my sister sites were not listed in the ODP directory, so why reference them?
I`m sure you must now understand my frustration
Because so many people jump in and stick in thier 2 pennies worth like a pack of wolves and then close the thread at the crucial time things got heated and i said something stupid and i appologise and will act to resolve this.
I have to ignore the second reason for removal as thats out of my control, but will the ODP?. I have worked on the content, Its not the best site out there buts it a mile better than it was and is better than a load of those that are listed in the ODP now.
Anyway your comments are always welcome birdie or anyone.
I just want to resolve the issue