I don't think there were would duplicate questions if there wasn't a lot of concern from members trying to get their sites recognized in a more timely manner. I understand it is due to volunteer editors, etc. but to say anywhere from 2 minutes to 2 years is very ambiguous language.
I have read the Faqs and I am in the same situation trying to patiently wait for dmoz or - unless a new organization like wiki becomes available.
It is a tough situation all around with no foreseeable solutions on the horizon.