First, please stop suggesting your site. Each time that you suggested it, you have clicked that you have read and agreed with our submission guidelines. Which include
Please only submit a URL to the Open Directory once. Again, multiple submissions of the same or related sites may result in the exclusion and/or deletion of those and all affiliated sites.
While we appreciate site suggestions, they are only one source of listings. And thanks to spammers, the suggestion pool is frequently a very dismal source. ODP isn't a listing service, we're a group of volunteers building a directory from a variety of sources. Someone will review your suggestion, but we have no idea when. It can be years. And it is a suggestion pool, not a queue. There are several ways to sort the suggestions, and if an editor chooses sort by date, you've dropped your suggestion to the bottom of the pool every time that you've suggested it.
Contacting editors is not necessary and is almost universally useless. Editors are not encouraged to reply to emails, since such exchanges frequently turn nasty and editors have even been harassed, stalked, and threatened. Personally, I never review/list a site after I receive feedback about it. Additionally, you don't know who will actually review a site. It could be the listed editors, but all editors listed higher in the category tree also have privileges, as do about 200 editors who have directory-wide permissions.