http://charlestonrealestatenews.com

http://dmoz.org/Regional/North_Amer.../Charleston/Business_and_Economy/Real_Estate/

i dont know what else to do?

Stop fretting about an ODP listing here. Instead, concentrate on making your website even better and on other promotional means.

If your website is listable, it'll happen when it happens. Nothing you can do will affect the timescale.