Yes, we ask you to wait another six months. I'm sure the answer you would like to see, it that you site was reviewed and accepted, but since it wasn't, the only other answer we could give are: rejected, or no change.
There is no other other answer that we could possibly provide since no-one has reviewed your site. I suppose we could ask each of the many hundred editors who could have reviewed your site, why they didn't. If they answered they could say things like:
I only reviewed one site in the last four months, and it wasn't that one
I reviewed 6,000 sites in the last few months, and none of them was that one.
If I really worked harder I might have got around to reviewing that one, but I have a family to support, and just don't have any more time to give.
I looked at that category, and although I could edit the sites there - I'm not the least bit interested in revewing that kind of site.
The problem is that you think that ODP is a service for site owners like you - that guaranteees to do things in some sort of linear fashion - but it's not. It's a directory manned by volunteers that works quite effectively in it's own way, each volunteer chooses to work when and where they want, and we do end up adding lots of sites every day. We don't claim to list every site, and probably never will.
If you had read the forum FAQ, you might have been able to answer this yourself.