If you can learn to think about an ODP listing as a recognition of site value, not a way to create it, then ... you'd be thinking the same way an editor does. "Catch-22" is not a concern -- because an editor CAN list a site that isn't featured in the search engines, if it contains significant unique content. And people who are capable of generating unique content, can generate it without ANY search engine visibility! (People who can't generate unique content are simply invisible to the ODP perspective.)
There's no "catch-22" there: if you maintain your own website, you are responsible (to yourself) for whatever content creation AND whatever promotion it needs. Nobody else has any responsibility in the matter, to anyone. You are the only one who determines whether it is a failure or a success. If it fails, it is entirely your failure and your failure alone; the fault and the consequences are yours alone.
So if YOU can't do what needs to be done, and it's not worth it to YOU to pay people who will help you do it, then ... it'll save us time not to review the site in the first place, doesn't it? If you won't take responsibility for it site, then just take it down: why leave it to encumber the internet?
>"About" dmoz.org is a resource for search engines not the contrary.
On the contrary. Woo-HOO, on the contrary! On BOTH contraries, in fact.
You significantly misunderstood the import of the only sentence in "about DMOZ" that mentions search engines and the ODP: "The Open Directory POWERS THE CORE DIRECTORY SERVICES for ... search engines AND PORTALS." That is, of course, talking about sites (some of which also contain search engines) posting copies of the Open Directory. DIRECTORY. There is nothing in that about how search engine spiders, indexers, or rankers use the ODP. They may, or they may not. They may have done it yesterday, or not. And they may do it tomorrow, or not. We give the ODP content away, and ANYONE may use it without cost and with very little obligation. It is their choice; they do not ask us for permission beforehand, and they do not tell us about it afterwards. But the ODP is a resource for surfers. What search engines make of it is ... creative abuse. We don't design for them, we don't implement for them, we don't plan for them, we don't try to stop them. As surfers, we merely enjoy the fruits of our editorial labor in improved search results.
As for the fallacy of the other hand: the ODP has ALWAYS encouraged editors to use as many different resources as possible, to experiment, and to share good resources with other editors. A corollary is that the ODP has NEVER RESTRICTED editors' use of resources. And today ... might I be permitted to suspect, out loud, that your unsupported personal assertion may not be QUITE influential enough to reverse six years of history for thousands of people?