robotash, in every forum I visit I have seen posts to the effect of "hurray, my site was listed!" They are not daily occurrences -- only about one in a HUNDRED THOUSAND listings triggers a forum post like that.
And a good thing too, a VERY good thing. How would you like it if your favorite search engine forum contained a thousand "hurray" messages every DAY? Talk about "effective distributed denial of service spam"!
Think about it.
Then think some more.
Windharp mentions a very important point. It is not obvious to webmasters -- although with a bare modicum of thought, it SHOULD be. But it seared into editor consciousness by experience.
There is a strong, and ALMOST perfect, correlation between "webmaster desire to get into the ODP" and "worthlessness of website." And anybody who takes the trouble to actually LOOK at the sites MOST INSISTENTLY asked about, will discover this for himself. (Our old site status forum is locked but still readable. Check it out, and share our experience of reality for yourself!)
ALMOST perfect, I say: in any forum containing questions about site status, it's like lawyers, "the spamming webmasters are ruining the reputation of the other 1 percent."
That's not editor prejudice, that's editor experience. Prejudice would be like assuming we knew WHICH 99% of the importunate webmasters were spammers. And we know that we can't know that. Most of us that are active in forums have (at some time or another) helped spamming submitters of legitimate sites to clean up their reputation so the sites could be considered on their merits. The reason we don't do it more often -- is, there isn't an OPPORTUNITY more often. That's reality. People who can offer unique goods and services are too busy providing unique goods and services to spam the ODP. It's the people who have nothing to offer who demand most.
But ... isn't that true, even offline, in your own universe?