>I guess I don't understand the process well enough. My website is not really unique per se, but how do you make a computer parts ecom site unique?
There is only one way you can make ANY site unique. Tell the world who you are and (what you know, what happened to you, or what you'll do for money.)
>I have waited months between submissions, so overwriting should not be an issue.
>And the fact that a number of my competitors with the exact same type of site are listed seems to suggest that mine should qualify, am I wrong in assuming that?
Yes, absolutely, you would be wrong to assume that.
Two obvious possibilities: may have been our mistake to list your competitors, or we may have listed sites for some deep significance they had OTHER than that they had dared to compete with you.
If you know about a real business that doesn't have a website -- a unique group of persons offering their skills to make or stock a unique collection of goods, or offer a unique range services -- then it will be POSSIBLE for you to create a website describing all this. It doesn't follow that you actually did!
If you have the kind of business that doesn't have very obviously unique services (that is, the editor may have to puzzle a while to find anything you offer that someone else doesn't already), then ... you should have expected longer delays than usual: for the sake of efficiency, editors often focus where their time results in more listings. Or if you have the kind of business that there's so much competition already listed that a surfer could problably find "something" that would suit their needs, even if it isn't exactly what you would have offered, then expect longer delays -- editors often focus where their work will make the most difference for our customers the surfers.
I do not say these HAVE happened. It may merely be that nobody has yet gotten around to the site for some reason that we could know only by tracking the priorities of each of thousands of editors -- which is not possible.
So, what's unique about the business? And what can be done to make that OBVIOUSLY unique?
Here's one thing businesspeople often neglect. There may be a zillion computer parts stores, but there are surely only a few that maintain a stock within driving distance of Nether Niflheim, New South Wales (and only a few dozen in North Manhatten, New York). If you describe the place where customers can walk in and pick up whatever stock you have, that's something OBVIOUSLY unique. You can submit to that locality and hope for more surfer interest (which is the same as to say, a "better chance for quicker editor review.") And eventually, perhaps have two listings.