aprilsfinebaby said:
I thought I had been listed because my site had been showing up on google and Aol seach engines.
You are correct, Google and AOL searches have nothing to do with ODP. AOL gets search results from Google. So, if your site ranked well for your keywords in Google, it would also rank well in AOL search.
If you are after higher Google rankings, start by finding out where your site appears now in Google. (Do a Google search for your keywords and see where your site shows up.)
Then, if your position is not where you'd like it to be and if you wish to improve it, you will need to either learn how to do it yourself, or pay someone to do it for you.
If you want to do it yourself, be prepared for a long learning curve. It requires some time each day and a lot of patience. It can take one year or more to acheive results if your keywords are very competitive.