Cliff;
No problems, your is a common misunderstanding. We have about 10,000 active editors and more than a million sites sitting in various submission pools, so none of us can claim we having nothign to do in our spare time.
Waiting patiently is a good thing.
Remember too, that ODP puts a major premium on what we call "unique content" (stuff that cannot be found anywhere else on the web), so while you are patiently waiting, taking the time to continue to add unique content and making sure that even an old, decrepit editor such as myself can find it, is a very, very good thing.