OK, that's progress. <img src="/images/icons/smile.gif" alt="" />
now, a few comments:
1. We ask enquirers to give us a clickable link to the category you submitted your site to, we can take a look and see if it's awaiting review in there.
2. You will not see a site that you have submitted until an editor reviews it.
3. There are no accounts in the ODP which you could get deleted from, so I'm not sure what your are referring to (unless you mean that you were an editor).
4. Submitting a web site is all you have to do to get a URL to be reviewed - this site is meant as a service to users so they can interact with the editors.
Now, to the URL you mentioned. It has been reviewed several times since January of 2002, at first it got listed in the category you mentioned, but then got reviewed again (we often re-review sites as we pass through) and removed because it did not meet our guidelines for sites that we will post, both due to affiliate content and content mirrored from other listed sites.
Based on the opinions of the editors that reviewed the site, I'm afraid to say that your site in it's current form is unlistable in the ODP.