Sorry, but other than ensuring your site is in the heap [which you have done] and that the site is up and working, ther is nothing that can be done. The editors review sites, the order and time for review depends on many things, which in the end are unpredictable.
Asking for a listing here is generally considered a bad idea, since if we did that the forum would be swamped with requests. In fact if I had just reviewed your site, I might go and unreview it for a few weeks just to make sure nobody thought there was a connection.
Listing your site because your competior is listed - goes totally against the purpose of ODP, we are not an advertising and marketing promition service.
There are different opinions about the answer to "How long till sites are reviewed?" My answer is - from a day to more than two years. I have reviewed sites that have been sitting for more than three years, and I also have reviewed sites in less than 10 minutes after submission.