Unfortunately the directory does not provide the services you 'need'. There is no expedited review process, there is not guarantee that any site suggestion will be included, and there is no listing services provided.
The editors organize links on a topic based on the directory's guidelines. The work is done by volunteers at their own speed and on their own time. The previous replies to your inquiries were straightforward and factual. They are common questions and the FAQ here helps to answer many of the most common ones.
We welcome all (well most all) suggestions, but thats all they are is a suggestion that an editor should take a look at and consider the site being suggested. There is no way to predict when a review will occur or which of the volunteers will perform one. If you have suggested your URL, thank you. You have done every thing you can now to bring it to the attention of the editors. There is nothing more that you need to do. Eventually an editor will be able to see and review your suggestion, if it meets the editing guidelines for inclusion it will be added. If not, we still thank you for your suggestion.