We have been waiting for over 6 months waiting to see if our website has been seen by an editor is there any way we can get in touch with the relevant editor
All 250 odd of them who can edit whichever category you suggested your website to? Practicably, the answer has to be no. You could work your way up the category tree until you find one at the bottom of the page. Click on the name to communicate, but please be aware that editors are advised not to reply.
It's not the sort of site we list (see guidelines) - we won't ever list it.
We can't find unique and useful content, either because it isn't there or because the navigation is user hostile. We won't list it in that state, but we might if it was improved. Why can't you do that now so that it falls into class 1 automatically?