I asked for information on what to do from here. I didn't ask for a lecture on philosophy - although I get the impression from reading other posts here that a lot of the visitors get the same treatment.
You see, there are two types of folks on this earth. There are individualists, and there are collectivists.
I've come to the conclusion that there's nothing wrong with ODP editors, it's just what we've got here a classic case of individualists meeting collectivists and getting cross wired.
You see, ODP editors from as far as I can gather are total collectivists. They have no moral structure apart from that the greater number represents the greater good, no matter what the 'group' might think. They believe in the abstraction of 'groups' and 'group consensus' and 'group rights'.
In contrast, an individualist looks at the group and asks 'what's the group? how can a group have rights?'. They regard a group as an abstraction. There are no forests, only trees, because the abstraction of the forest only comes from the individual trees.
Collectivists love rules. If they see a problem, then their instant response is 'make a law or rule'. They hence tend to see governments as pseudo-'God', and hence most have no religious or moral beliefs based upon an enlightened self-interest or word of God as self-interpreted. They also tend to believe very much in hierarchy. They believe that they no best - the good of the greater number - and hence will tend to treat those outside of 'group fusion' as outsiders, whom they have the responsibility to look after with rules and hence - and here's the big bogey - to impinge their rules upon. They also see institutions, particularly governments for example, as the very source of rights. If they are source of rights, then they have the right to take those rights away, if those at the top of the collective decide that that is right for the greater good of the greater number. And because they are at the top, and so educated and wise, they honestly feel that they know better than everyone else and it's for everyone else's own good that they imfringe their rules or laws.
Your individualist on the other hand believes in the restriction and limitations of rules on the individual by any government. He or she believes in education by good example, persuasion, and thought and interpretation rather than the coercion by law. Their moral structure is based upon individual self-interest and self-interpreted word of God if religious. If they are religious, they do not regard institutions as psuedo-God (rather like television is regarded by some individuals). Rather, they believe in protecting their own rights as the individual, and therefore do not have any argument with anyone else doing the same. They don't believe in rules or buerocracy - they see them as advantageous only to the elite, and also stifling and inefficient.
Most web site owners, at least those attempting to sell goods or products through the web, will almost certainly be individualists.
Your ODP editors on the other hand I think are looking for something that they can call 'mine, mine, mine' and a community of voluntary cooperation rather than the coercion of employment. They are collectivists, and hence believe in the abstraction of the group, the rights of the 'group', and hence that laws and rules are sacred.
So there we have it. We have the classic cross-wires of individualists trying to talk with collectivists. It's no wonder that so many people seem to have problems getting responses here and the webmaster/editor relationship seems to be totally unestablishable. And it's no ones fault either, just completely crossed paradigms!
Mark