I'm sorry if this sounds blunt, but since we are not doing this as a service to you we are not actually asking you to wait. We review web sites in order to build a directory; a lot of people help us out by suggesting web sites and we do review them all but we cannot say when it will be. Note also that it is very unlikely that the editor(s) who will be looking at your site have read this thread.
We are not singling you out for unfair treatment - this is the situation for everybody who suggests a site to us. In some categories, review times are very short, in others they are long, but the situation may be reversed at any time.
And regarding reasonable time frames, please read this posting by kokopeli, which summarises it beautifully:
http://resource-zone.com/forum/showpost.php?p=101322&postcount=6
We ask of all submitters that they don't ask for new status reports more often than every 6 months. This has nothing to do with the length of time until review, it is just a way to manage this forum better. This makes you eligible for another status request after Dec 2, if you haven't seen your site listed by then. Thank you for your patience.