Do NOT use this forum to request site reviews. That's what "Update URL" at dmoz.org is for, and it works more efficiently than any forum possibly could.
No ODP editor should EVER promise a listing. No one of us has the power to keep that promise. And certainly, nothing said in THIS forum promised a listing.
After you read the forum policies, read the submittal policies. And follow them. (Submit once, or twice at most, then check to see if the submittal has been received.)
You never have to "wait." Get out and get to work! Pretend the ODP doesn't exist, and go promote your own site. Don't wait for the ODP to do it. Anything we do for you, we'll do for all your competitors, and we might do it for them first! And anyway, site promotion (yours or competitors) is not our job and we won't take the responsibility.