You're not being a pain, so please don't worry about that - you are asking legitimate questions.
I would suggest you take a look at the FAQ both on this forum and in the ODP for more background as to how the editorial process works, and why it can take a long time for a suggestion to get reviewed.
You will also see how there is a reasonably-sized pool of editors who can look at ANY submission and review it. It depends very much on the editor's comfort level at listing sites in that category.
If the suggestion got moved from one category to another, it was because the editor that looked at it felt it belonged better in that other category, and moved the suggestion there, for another editor to look at. It doesn't mean you made a mistake - often trying to understand the various categories and how they are structured takes some very detailed knowledge of the ODp which probably only an editor would interest themselves in (or an ODP-geek, I suppose - never heard of too many of those that didn't have some sort of self-interest in the work).
So please hang tight. You are welcome to ask for an update again at least 6 months after your last request, which would make it after August 26th. Please re-use this thread to do so.
Thanks for your interest,