In message #3, you were told the site was waiting in the Sports category.
If you check the FAQs here and on dmoz.org, you'll find you should
not resubmit to
any category if the site is waiting in the correct category (with exceptions for Regional/topical, Kids&Teens, sites in more than one language, and a few others that are not applicable here.)
If you're sure you accidently submitted to the Wedding Photographer category, you should submit again to
that category with the description
[Please ignore -- already suggested to Business/Arts_and_Entertainment/Photography/Photographers/Sports/]
You may also reference this thread in the description.
Good luck.