I don't see it in either of the two categories mentioned in this thread. I also don't see any evidence that it was moved or deleted. When you submitted, where exactly did you submit? And did you receive any error messages? My guess is that if you re-submitted to one of these two categories, the submission never went through.
Frankly, I'm not sure that either of those two categories is the best one for this site, though. The site appears to be about a method for citizens to contact their local government, not about an organization. It also appears to be Connecticut-specific. As a result, it should be listed somewhere in
http://dmoz.org/Regional/North_America/United_States/Connecticut , but since it isn't about an organization, doesn't belong in the Organizations subcategory. The main
CPEC site would belong here, and, in fact, is currently listed in this category.
Essentially
www.civicradar.com is a subsite for a specific project of of
CPEC. As a result, I'm not certain that your main page would be listable at all.
If it were (and that's a big "if," depending on an editor thinking the content is valuable enough to a category to justify the listing), I suspect that the
Connecticut Government category would be the most likely fit, with a description along the lines of "Service allowing residents to contact their towns." It is also possible that an editor might decide to list only the individual pages for the towns you represent (currently only Wethersfield and Weston), if they were judged to be valuable enough to warrant deeplinking.
The bottom line is that I'd suggest submitting to the
Connecticut Government category, but I'm not going to make any promises about listability.