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another thread you asked about status and about inclusion in a clothing category. I'm replying here because we like to keep everything about a single site in a single thread.
We prefer to keep status reports to one per calendar month, so I won't be saying anything about that before November 6.
While we do sometimes list sites in more than one category, that should be considered the exception rather than the general rule. I'm not saying it won't happen, but I don't suggest you get your hopes up.
As for which category is best, a brief look at your home page shows more emphasis on sexy clothing than on sex toys. The url kind of confirms that too. You might want to consider resubmitting to a clothing category with a [parenthetical note like this] in the description so the reviewing editor doesn't think you're expecting a double listing.