>But, what if it was reviewed and rejected? (un-thinkable! ) The only way I would know is by asking here.
That is true ... but ... look at it from a functional perspective.
Does it help US for you to know your site has been rejected? No, it doesn't. And that's really as far as the analysis needs to go, for the software developers on a site designed to support directory builders.
But...does it help an honest submtter to know that his site has been rejected? Nearly always, not really, no. Whether rejected or waiting for rejection, the simple fact is: it isn't listed, and there's no guarantee it will ever be listed. So he'd better be arranging for whatever website promotion he needs from somewhere else. His ACTIONS don't depend on that information in any way whatsoever!
And, does it help the SPAMMER to know one of his sites has been rejected? YES, it's a GREAT help! And it will give him information to better disguise the next spam site he submits to us. (And that hurts us!)
So not reporting rejections helps us, hurts spammers, and in reality doesn't effect honest submitters at all.
I've repeated this analysis dozens of times in various forums. Nobody has ever even attempted to refute it by suggesting any action an honest submitter might take as a result of such a notice. And in these forums, almost the only people who have ever asked after rejection what they might be able to do, are generators of obvious affiliate/doorway/drip-shopping-ship-dropping spam sites (no surprise, what are most of the sites we reject, do you think?)