No, that misses the point. Building a site specifically to get an ODP listing is one of the sure ways to not get a listing.
Build a site to be friendly to SURFERS that are BROWSING for INFORMATION. It is (for your purposes) only a harmless side effect that among the surfers attracted will be editors.
I agree with the other editors. Site navigation is your Achilles' heel. There may be good content in there, but it is just flat too difficult to find by browsing. You've obviously spent a great deal of time and effort on the graphical layout -- we'd have been deliriously happy to list a site with MUCH less attractive layout -- but ... it's like a fancy car body with a defective engine: it doesn't take us where we want to go. Bodywork designers and painters alone cannot make a car: graphic design alone may make a tourist brochure, but it cannot make a website.
I tried just free-browsing; I tried looking for specific things. Sorry, but that's not a site I'd want to look for specific information in; it's not a site I'd want to show to our visitors.
To make this website useful for the (roughly) one-quarter of the population that browses ... if that's what you're interested in ... you'd need links and nodes, not just brochure pages.
For instance: suppose I were looking for "golf" on the site. What link on the home page should I click on? Huh?
Now, if you had an "activities" link -- with a page mentioning golf, snorkeling, hiking, shopping, birdwatching ... and then a "golf page" -- with a map of Mexico, say, with all the locations with golf courses marked as hyperlinks (and a list of cities underneath for text-oriented users, of course). Each city would have its own page with links to the local golf courses, and maybe comments like "Quintera Foo, with three more golf courses is only three hours' train ride away" -- with links to nearby cities.
That begins, I hope, to sound like a directory structure. But that's the point of a directory -- to help people target on what they're after. It doesn't work just for the web -- it works on smaller scales also. And it doesn't just help surfers -- had you considered how the focused topic node pages would be treated by the search engine spiders? Instant authority pages. (Well, almost instant maybe.)
Yes, this is a different way of looking at the world. You don't have to look at it this way. But some of your visitors will. Are you ready for them?
When you are ready for them, resubmit. One of them will come to review the site for the ODP.