Unless you have been very naughty (example: extreme spamming of the directory or bribery offers) a site is not likely to be banned ('Blacklisted' was your term) for consideration. Suggesting your site three times in 3 years doesn't =spamming, but I would discourage you from suggesting the site to different categories. You should choose the 1 best category and suggest it there.
No category is without an editor, any editor higher up the branch or editall/Meta permissions can edit there. Having no named editor doesn't mean someone is not currently active in the category, and the flipside is seeing a named editor doesn't mean that there is anyone currently actively editing it. My first love in the directory was my home state, my editor name still appears at the bottom of it but since I edit in all of Regional, I only rarely actually edit there and usually it is just to clean up dead links and process update requests although some days I may spend the whole day looking through categories.
If the category you suggested to isn't the best one, the reviewing editor will forward it along to the correct one to be reveiwed. So no need to worry about that.
As an editor who has worked a little in Regional-Spain I will say that there is a tremendous amount of spam suggestions (especially in Real Estate categories) there and it is not surprising at all that a site review would take quite some time.
snuffles said:
Thanks for spending your valuable time with my queries, i realise that your mission is to "edit the directory" and not to be fending off my desperate queries.
No problem, hope it helps in some way.
Regards.