>Are you saying that if a website sells products on the site that are purchased and shipped to the customer via a dropship program with a wholesaler, that they cannot be listed??
We'll happily list the wholesaler. If they wish, THEY can link to their preferred order-taker page(s).
This is not a new problem. Vstore (a.k.a. SMC etc.) and their shills were sending us dozens of pages daily, even back in the last millenium. It did not amuse, but it did build a reputation (you find a Vstore order-taker page listed, and a dozen editors will drop everything to go expunge it) and establish a precedent.
>Also, what if company ABC, has multiple websites and they sell mostly all of the same products on each of the different sites, can both sites be listed since they are all part of the same company or can only one be listed?
We call those sites "fraternal mirrors". Yes, absolutely, they are "related sites" for the purpose of applying the death penalty mentioned in the submittal policies.
Such companies are STRONGLY recommended to (1) make SURE that only ONE of those sites EVER gets suggested; and (2) if an editor goes to another of their fraternal mirrors WITHOUT it having been suggested, that it is very clear how to get back to the "real" (main) company website.
These kind of things you describe are not "spam"; they are considered "devious malicious spam", and targeting the ODP with them is (as the submittal policies state) the most evil thing that can be done as a submitter.
What's so evil?
Remember, the ODP is about information. A business site needs to answer the question "who are you, and what do you do for money?"
A drop-ship order taker isn't information, it is disinformation. "I claim to be doing this for money, but I won't tell you who actually does it." It's a lie, pure and simple.
(Back when we supplied individual site statuses, we had a vstore doorway-keeper FURIOUS with us, because after her site was rejected, she badgered editors until someone let slip the fact that we knew she was a vspammer -- and since that was in our public forum, her customers could see it ... and ... because of that accurate information publicly available, a big customer chose not to do business with her any more. And she claimed that Vstore, like a cocaine wholesaler, contractually binds order-takers to keep the relationship secret.)
That is just flat not honest. If it is not outright criminal fraud, still, the mere fact that society tolerates that kind of deception -- that shoppers aren't taught from birth to avoid it like an Ebola outbreak -- gives unlimited unquenchable opportunities for outright criminal fraud.
No, there are surely thousands of genuine little shops out there, providing their own unique goods and services, and depending on the net to find customers. The Vstore spammers try to bury the real little guys in doorway spam. Who wouldn't sympathize with the little guys? Who WOULD sympathize with the bully with a thousand fright masks (each claiming to be a "little guy")?