Ahhh, now it all makes sense. I had similar trouble getting these sites into Yahoo (had to pay the $199 fee twice for some). But then we gave them this explanation:
All of these sites are independent companies, that produce their own direct mail catalog of invitations. These 12 sites also market to different niche audiences (i.e.
www.now-and-forever.com carries Disney invitations,
www.evangelwedding.com carries Christian and Precious Moments invites, and
www.rexcraft.com is the largest print wedding catalog in the country etc.) I could go on if need be, but I feel carpal tunnel setting in... As for the affiliate links, they are not really as they appear (I assume you were referring to the links in the upper right corner). These are portal and planning sites that provide a kind of wedding community. No money is gained by any company for referrals. If you shop on any of these portal sites, you will notice that the invitations take you back to the individual catalog site, and not through a central company. With this explanation in mind, is there any way that I would be able to enter these sites into the Open Directory? If you have any more questions or I didn't explain everything well enough, please reply. Thanks for your time.