Yes, I see that we may share similar frustrations. Policies discourage me from resubmitting and insist that I first check status, but it is likely that any submission pending was NOT made by me, but in my behalf. Since my largest single problem seems to have been category selection, an attempt to inquire in all possibly pertinent categories would be exhaustive, and would probably also be considered to be 'spam'.
And yet, I just read advice from a moderator that a guest SHOULD submit in two categories, simultaneously. I have very seldom been more confused.
The site,
http://chivalrysteel.com is commercial only to the point of trying to provide product where none is otherwise available at a reasonable price, but it seems that the possibility of a site being primarily informational, also an online resource, and nominally commericial, is confounding to this directory.
Should I seperately inquire in every possibly appropriate category? Submit again in hopes that two submissions won't collide? Inquire in the single category that I choose to use for re-submission, and hope that, in that they can't seem to cross intentionally, the two submissions therefore can't cross accidentally?
I just need to know what to do next...