I did notice that you appear to have you're own content on the Dream Gold site. But if what you are saying is true about your affiliation with ejewelry.com, then why have the affiliation at all? Especially since it could compromise your dmoz listings, not to mention that your users think they are buying from you when they clearly aren't.
Let me offer you some food for thought. Would you divide up your in-store jewelry stock by type (gold, silver, diamonds) and then place them in different stores at different locations? Of course you wouldn't if you're a smart retailer, not to mention the overhead it would cost. Most people are spontaneous shoppers and if they have to go to two or three different stores to buy what they want, they will most likely go where they can get everything in one place. And you will miss a sale.
So, what is different about doing it on the Internet? Why not offer all your relative merchandize in one location? What reason do you have to divide your online stock and have different urls? It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why. I believe you knew the potential for being labeled a spammer by sneaking this site in. Why else would you pretend not to know that a site can be listed in both the topical and regional categories?
Do yourself a favor and spend your time and energy developing a good online jewelry site. One that offers all your products and develop more information for you potential customers and earn even more online credibility. That is of course, if you're in it for the long haul.
While the two sites look different the content is still jewelry, which doesn't offer anything unique by definition.
Just my 2 cents, which is all it's worth since I'm not an editor on the ODP.
