The reason for that is that the Guidelines we suggest you read are the same Guidelines we edit by, so the answers are in there. Anything more than that is doing a site review for you specifically, and we don't do that.
You're asking us to review your sites, and then tell you how to get around our Guidelines in order to get them listed.
Assuming that you're an honest, decent fellow with no intention of trying to spam the directory with multiple sites for your own personal benefit or the type of junk sites we don't list at all, I'm afraid there are others who are not quite so honestly intentioned, and they read these forums also.
Most site suggestions are happily listed, if they meet our qualifications for being listed, accept in certain spam ridden areas of the Directory that we refer to as spam magnets, where it takes us more time to ferret them out.
Getting listed in these areas takes much longer (which is the fault of the dishonest spammers, not the editors). It is a matter of quality control, not only for our websurfers looking for relevant information, but, also for the honest site suggesters like I'm assuming you are. Would you want your site suggestion buried in junk? (I think not)
So, it's not that we don't
want to be more helpful, it's because we
can't be more helpful for certain reasons. Thank your fellow site suggesters who are less than honest for that, but, don't blame the editors.