Oh dear. I hestitate to post anything in this thread, but I feel obligated to clear up a few issues raised by the original poster.
While I am the editor in question for the category, other more experienced editors have given you very, very good advice that you should follow. Look at their designations, "meta" and "editall", and you should know that you are getting info from the top. Check it out <img src="/images/icons/wink.gif" alt="" />
I agree with most everything that has been shared with you and I think that you should relent. After all, you have your listings. What you do not seem to accept is that we as editors have some discretion over how we list.
This is what makes dmoz so rich and dynamic. But in the end, we must all follow the guidelines. And since you have so much interest in dmoz, why not become an editor. It is a great learning experience!
It is a shame that we can not submit listings word for word. I know too that some submitters such as yourself would like to actually approve our edits, but unfortunately dmoz does not work like this.
You sent me another mail today asking that the rules be applied fairly on all sites regarding the title issue and I agree with you. However you should refer to the resources already pointed out to you for clarity.
You should also know that I have only somewhat recently taken over that category and am in the process of re-reviewing all of the sites. Your site was reviewed expeditiously, because of your multiple submissions. The other sites in the category which may be out of alignment with guidelines will be reviewed.
I, and other editors, have given your site a lot of attention, because you have indeed submitted multiple requests and emails (even though you say that you do not want to spam).
The spamming should stop or you do indeed risk having your listings banned (see the rules). While some may edit dmoz for ego gratification (I know of none), many edit for more noble reasons. And your accusations regarding ego gratification are very offensive and will get you absolutely no where.
We are volunteers and have a lot of sites to review. Once again if you would like to learn more, please sign up as an editor as you seem to have the time and interest.
Good luck to you and I hope that you will consider constructive ways in which to contribute to dmoz.
Respectfully,
pstroud