>Six months should be quite sufficient to get this done, unless of course it's being purposely overlooked.
Let me take a stab at addressing the fundamental misunderstanding here. First, we don't work on websites. We work on categories. Someone who is working on Arts/Literature or Regional/Mongolia or World/Deutsch simply will not be able to "overlook" your site, because they won't see it.
Now, how many website developers have websites, do you suppose? How many of them have MULTIPLE websites, so that editors have to waste time weeding out the duplicates?
In other words, a website in Regional/..../Ulan_Bator is likely to have obvious possibilities of uniqueness; an editor can ferret around and pick out sites that are likely to be interesting and listable.
Is that true in Computers/Website_Development?
Huh, right.
No site is obviously unique. Any one, no matter how described, no matter what the homepage, has to be reviewed as if it's got Spamford Wallace's fingerprints (carefully disguised) all over it. Lots of work, very few listable sites per hour of work, not much sense of accomplishment.
Reckon that category might be deliberately overlooked, every day, by lots of editors? Right.
But as for your site in particular--it may be the center of the world to you, but it's one of a zillion website developers' sites to us -- in other words, like the other zillion WDS's, it's extremely easy to overlook. There's no rational reason to see that site singled out for special inattention -- why would anyone bother? and how (amidst all the general attention) could you tell?
You expect attention? from a single website? Build a portfolio, build a reputation, build a community.
How?
Are there any local civic, community, charitable, church, educational, etc., etc., organizations in your hometown that really don't have money for promotion, but would profit by having a website with their calendar, news, meeting location, contact information, events, mission statement?
Contact them. Offer to build them sites. A couple of dozen pages, a couple of day's work at most, ten minutes a month maintaining the site ... and a modest advertisement at the bottom of several critical pages: "this site provided as a public service by [your link here.]"
Think THOSE sites would get listed quickly? Think, possibly, just possibly, people contacting us about such sites (without pressure) would have their background checked out (and maybe listed) as a side effect? (No promises, but it's happened several times that I know of.) In any case, you'd have unbegrudged links from each of those public-service websites.
And you'd see something of the public spirit -- in the people you meet (many of whom also work in commercial establishments that need web development work) ... and in your own work.