Eric, do you find it acceptable for sites to go without review for more than 1 year? Do you agree with what I said about the power and influence of DMOZ? If you review and maintain your category in a timely manner, doesn’t irritate you when others don’t?
As a general point one area of misunderstanding often occurs because the enquirer (ie you) and the editor (ie me) are focussed on different aspects of the directory. As a webmaster (presumably of a business) your focus is your business (and rightly so) and your perception of the ODP is colored by your 'needs'. There is nothing wrong with this.
Our perception is of the directory as a whole in relation to millions of websites out there and and understanding that we cannot fulfill everyones expectations. The bottom line is that the answers from one viewpoint are often unpalatable to those approaching the subject from the other.
'Is it unacceptable for a site to be unreviewed for more than a year?' Well, given the sheer number of sites out there I'm afraid the answer is that I find it perfectly acceptable and normal. There is no directory that can guarentee a listing for all sites within a set period.
The power of DMOZ is of no interest to us (ok we feel pleased we are part of something big) as we have no control over it. I certainly do not edit because of it and just because someone somewhere decides it is important does not mean I am bound by it. I could argue that CNN should link to my site because they have influence.
What is a timely manner? When I had permissions for a single category, I kept it up to scratch. Now I have (for my sins) more categories I can count, I log on to see large amounts of unrevieweds glaring at me. How do I cope? by ignoring most of the categories and assigning myself a task to complete each time (or taking the dog for a walk).
What you really mean is 'why isn't my site listed after a year, hey it would really help my business out, come on...' which is a perfectly valid opinion to hold. We get this enquiry fairly commonly and, yes, perhaps we get a bit jaded of repeating the same answers, trying to get past the same preconceptions, the same accusations of bias and end up wondering why on earth we bother.
Before I became an editor, I discovered something about the ODP that made everything fall into place and, even now as an editor, I keep it in mind. It is '
the ODP is not designed to meet your expectations'. This is true whether you are a submitter, an editor, a meta or even AOL (the owner).
Hence advising you to submit and forget and utilise your time in promoting your business elsewhere is the most positive response you can get (plus permission to resubmit).
regards