You still don't get it.
I could go away from this forum and not post for months, and it would not help you one bit, because I simply do not have the authorization to edit in the category that you want to see you site listed in.
And even if I did, I can choose how to spend my time. If I want to post here, I get to do that. If you wish to have more control over your site listing and how editors work, then go to a paying service, where you can get to demand what you want.
I'm not sure what you think gets achieved by getting rid of the "lazy" editors who edit one site a month. It's thousands of editors doing that that build the directory. Replacing them with second class editors who cannot meet the minimum requirements of editing, and were previoulsy refused, gets us to build a directory with many more listings and of low quality.
But it's a myth anywhay, these so called editors dying to get in are for the most part, IMO, webmasters dying to get in to list their sites, and after it gets listed - we will be lucky if they do one edit a month.
Anyway - go ahead and call AOL
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