Well I've got my site to top 30 in an incredibly competitive business category without being listed in the ODP. This is out of 8 million returns. It took about 2 weeks of playing from a revised site. I'm very happy with it - I would still like to be #1 though. Perhaps at the end of the month when Google re-indexes my PageRank will increase and it will push me up to top 10. This will indicate to me that it is VERY possible to get there without ODP reliance (I don't doubt there is that possibility, it just may make things more difficult.)
I will not say that it is easy to get to this place - it's involved alot of studying, website reorganization, and some tricky coding amongst other things. My site is mostly a gallery of images and a particular design (which I don't want to sacrifice as an artist/designer) which makes 'page relevancy' even more difficult considering there's little text to spider. It has taken me about 1.5 month's worth of work. In monitoring this - I haven't been able to crack the top 30 - it's just been hovering there for about a week.
In a reverse look-up of the top 30 results, almost all of them have been listed in the ODP. I've run an Alexa reverse traffic report on these sites and quickly saw how much an ODP listing propogates to other directories and search engine results - all of which have a decently high Page-Rank which gets passed on. The leads are quite remarkable and unmistakable. The problem is that these other sites will not let you independently submit since they are tied-in with the ODP.
Again, a listing here brings up 'the chicken or the egg came first' scenario. But undoubtedly, a listing does propogate very well adding to PageRank/TrustRank. Nevertheless, I am working hard to 'beat the system' one way or another.
Sorry to appear 'greedy.' I hate working for money, but as an artist I know all-too-well what starving for 8 years can do to you. It pretty much sucks. Having to do sales and beg is even worse. Whether or not a top 10 gets you any business - that's beyond my understanding and a best-guess at most.