As you've been told, repeatedly, there's nothing of value to communicate.
This is not my theory, my fantasy, my uninformed vision of what might be. This is based on six years of careful experimentation, to see what would work and what wouldn't. We tried what you ask for: making a concerted effort involving many editors and considerable review of the value and results.
We know, from long and detailed personal experience, exactly how much it's worth--and it's much less than it costs. That's the end of it. We made a community decision to cut off that massive waste of time and energy. And only mass amnesia can change that fact.
Alienating website owners, is not a problem. The sane, rational website owners can be brought to understand reality, and how it works, and how they can expect it to work: and we'll keep on explaining it, for them. The others are beyond our help.
The popular uprising is not a problem. The ODP IS a popular uprising. Many editors support other popular uprisings. If you have a good ideal (other than "volunteer slaves for any spammer who walks by", which is all you've come up with so far), then you may attract people: editors and non-editors. More power to you! The net is large: there's room for many more popular uprisings.
As for the wants and needs of people, the ODP was formed because someone thought it was the most efficient way to serve one need. Other needs, such as website reviews, web promotion services, etc., can be taken care of far more efficiently elsewhere. So, when I want to serve those needs (and there are other needs I do want to serve), I'll go elsewhere. And when you want those needs served, reason would suggest that you go elsewhere also.
But it's not polite, it's not _rational_, to go to a group formed to serve ONE need, and demand they drop that to serve some OTHER need. You don't expect soup kitchens to treat trauma wounds, you don't expect hospitals to provide indigent housing, you don't expect libraries to provide hot meals. This is not to denigrate any of those needs: it is just to say that it's better for a volunteer organization to focus on the needs that its community can provide efficiently, and let some OTHER community form to provide for other needs. Is the net any different? Hardly. Wikipedia doesn't index businesses in Toxic Meadows, New Jersey; Project Gutenberg doesn't index websites.
Is there anyone on the net that offers website promotion or website review? (Duh...) Then ... there's no need for the ODP to provide those services; any ODP editor is free to volunteer on those other sites also, if he thinks it worthwhile.
That's reality. That's life. The internet is no different.