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your shocked reading your own post? :s
I guess that depends on what one just read, and I had just read the entire thread.
What shocks me is the attitude, and I don't even specifically mean this thread. So often in here if someone doesn't get an answer they like there are all kinds of accusations and often angry comments. If anyone is here regularily I think they'd agree that I'm not rude, or a smart alec. I go the extra mile to help out if I can, and I try to be kind as I'm doing it. Apparently there is something shocking about me saying I made an editorial decision and that if someone reviews my decision and disagrees they will change it. If they agree they won't. Maybe one person sees a site with 50% products that are "coming soon" or have 50% products that are unavailable and feels that doesn't meet the requirement of being content rich. Maybe someone does. Not everyone has to agree with any decision on here. If someone feels there is abuse, they should file a report. This line is in the guidelines:
Remember, no site is guaranteed a listing in the Open Directory, and we depend on editors to use their own discretion. In short, we ask that editors maintain editorial integrity, keep the ODP's broader goals and mission in mind, and always employ good common sense.
Individual people make individual decions. The purpose of the ODP and why I participate is offering quality sites for the end user. I feel bad for the submittors who become angry and upset because their site hasn't been listed or because it's taken longer than they feel it should take to be listed, but sometimes I personally feel frustrated by that anger. Submissions are suggestions, listings if given are free. There are plenty of avenues for paid promotion out there. It's unfortunate that sometimes individuals get upset to the point they travel around in various threads leaving negative comments.
I worked at Sears and Roebuck in college, and used to get yelled at on a regular basis and I worked in the catalog department. For instance, this woman had ordered a tickle me elmo doll or something right before Christmas and it came back as being on backorder when she went to pick up her order. It was suddenly my fault that her child was going to be disappointed on Christmas morning. It wasn't her fault for ordering it a month and a half before Christmas when it was the hottest item going. It wasn't the Kansas City Sear's fault for saying they could fill the order and then not sending it to my state. It was my fault personally. Nothing I said could convince this lady otherwise. As a parent now, I can understand why she would be upset and I can even understand to some degree why she couldn't objectively see that I personally was not to blame. She was upset because she didn't like the end result and was disapointed. I understand that. Vision gets cloudy sometimes, and I imagine both sides often have trouble seeing the position of the other. Sometimes appoaching things with anger can make it even harder to get to the bottom of an issue though.
Like I said in my previous post, not everyone is going to agree. Life is just that way. ODP is not some kind of dictatorship though and I think it's unfair to say that it is. There is a system of checks and balances and I--just like everyone else--needs to make good judgements and behave responsibly. It was the right thing to file that report if there are concerns. Someone will objectively address that abuse report and decide how to proceed.