What in the heck was rude about the response?
He didn't call you or your mother names. He didn't suggest you were stupid.
He plainly and eloquently laid out the process so that you, and anyone browsing the forum would understand what the process is, and how it works.
You asked for the status and asked if there was anything that you could do to help. Let's look at the reply:
"It is waiting review there. You've done what you can do here: no need to do anything else at all. You are free to look for other profitable activities.
The first sentence gives you the status. No extra words, no puffery, no flowery prose. It is waiting for review. Then he addresses the second part of of your question:
You've done what you can do here: no need to do anything else at all. You are free to look for other profitable activities.
What could possibly be rude about that? He answered your question, didn't tell you to go away, but rather gently suggested that you not worry about your submission.
Then, as a bonus for you and for others, he added:
If that is the wrong category, but the site is listable, an editor will move it. This is not an unusual case: we handle it very efficiently, hundreds of times daily, without the necessity of additional assistance.
Good information there, especially if one is worred that one might have submitted to the wrong category. This is a very common follow-up question.
Look, I know that sometimes we get curt with submitters we perceive as deceptive or particularly bone-headed. I've done it myself and I've taken some very well-deserved lumps for it. I suspect my sarcastic tone when I first partifipated in this forum is a "permanent black mark" in my ODP record that will take a very, very long time to erase. But this is one case where I think the criticism is very unfounded.
Now, why don't we have an automated system? It has been asked many times inthe past, so I will give you the sort answer. It gives too much information to the directory spammers.
You see, you are a victim of the people who want to abuse the directory We have any number of policies and procedures in place designed to thwart (or slow down) the spammers. If we give out too much informaton on our methods, it gives them additional information to exploit. Yes, the many are put at a disadvantage by the few. It happens in life (just go through any airport) and it happens in the directory.
Why do we respond? It is in our very nature to respond. We also have to "prove" people wrong because if their allegations on this forum go unchecked they will get repeated as fact on other forums. Remember, a given response is not crafted just for the individual, but for everyone who reads it. This is a valuable less that a lot of learned back in the glory days (pre alt.) of Usenet.
Your comments were received in spirit in which the were delivered.